Jeffrey Platts

Are You On Victim Auto-Pilot?

Written by on August 14, 2017

“Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world.” — Eckhart Tolle

This quote is one one of my biggest mantras that I always come back to. Whenever I’m riding through life on victim auto-pilot, I re-read this quote and it wakes, or rather slaps, me out of my victim daze.

Not getting complimented on your sexy new outfit?
Compliment yourself.
Better yet, give a (genuine) compliment to someone else.

No one is calling you to ask how you’re doing?
Call THEM to ask how they’re doing.
Put your ego’s tit-for-tat rule aside and be the source of what you want.

Not getting invited to any parties?
Host your own party and invite who you want.

No one saying hello to you?
Go first. Say hello to them.

When you become the source of what you want, what you want starts to appear.

Jeffrey Platts is a men's coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men create amazing relationships with women. With over 20 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Jeffrey's work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program and the Good Men Project. He brings a rich toolbox of insights and experiences to his facilitation, integrating his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer, yoga teacher and world traveler.