Jeffrey Platts

Jeffrey Platts

Jeffrey Platts is a men's coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men create amazing relationships with women. With over 20 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Jeffrey's work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program and the Good Men Project. He brings a rich toolbox of insights and experiences to his facilitation, integrating his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer, yoga teacher and world traveler.


Written by on September 25, 2017

Instead of planning that big romantic gesture to “win over” a woman you literally just met, your time is better invested in first learning about energy and connection so you can know if that big romantic gesture is going to

Brother, I Don’t Give A Shit

Written by on September 12, 2017

I don’t give a shit if you are introverted. I don’t give a shit if you’re currently out of shape. I don’t give a shit if you’re bald. I don’t give a shit if you’re short. I don’t give a

Are You On Victim Auto-Pilot?

Written by on August 14, 2017

“Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world.” — Eckhart Tolle This quote is one one of my biggest mantras that I always come back to. Whenever I’m riding through life on victim auto-pilot, I

Why I Kept Feeling Like Shit For Years (And How Switching One Letter Saved Me.)

Written by on August 7, 2017

For several years, I struggled with depression. Low, dark moods that kept lingering around. And only now looking back do I see a big factor that contributed to that. I kept FEEDING those feelings. I made things 10 times worse

3 Issues That Enable Men to Stay Boys

Written by on June 10, 2017

Those are questions that are on many women’s minds. The men they meet and date feel more like lost boys than empowered men. Here are three reasons why some guys might not be living fully as the powerful men they

Bro, Why Sex Won’t Heal Your Broken Heart

Written by on June 10, 2017

As men, we typically aren’t that skilled in dealing with emotions. Hell, we often aren’t that skilled at noticing our emotions. But no event has the more power to force us to notice and feel our emotions as a breakup. Whether you’ve been

You’re Going To Have To Start Doing The Work At Some Point

Written by on March 28, 2017

My dear brother, the sexy, well-matched woman you want to meet isn’t going to just show up at your bathroom door while you’re on the toiling swiping left and right on your dating app.  You’re going to have to get

You’re Doing Validation Wrong

Written by on March 21, 2017

Today I looked up the etymology of the word “validation”. Not the modern definition, but the ROOT of the word. Here’s what I found—from Latin validus, “strong, effective, powerful, active,” from valero, “be strong” So at its core, validation is


Written by on March 20, 2017

Two days ago I was at a bar. Not because I like bars. I don’t. But because I wanted to watch the final of the Brazil x Germany Olympic soccer match. And this particular bar was the only place that was

8 Steps To Rock Your Next Date

Written by on March 20, 2017

1. Slow down. 2. Breathe. 3. Give a shit about yourself.  4. Give a shit about her. 5. Give a shit about the connection between you and her. 6. Ask questions and share from that place. 7. Chew with your