Wait, what? Hear me out.
Your next long-term girlfriend (or wife or life partner) is already out there. RIGHT NOW.
And if you are anything like me, you prefer a woman who values:
Now, what are the chances of
a) you being on her radar (and her being on yours)
b) being able to connect and meet her at her level of growth…
…if you’re not doing the same thing now for YOURSELF?
Because my strong hunch is that you don’t want just ANY woman, but a WELL-MATCHED one.
One that is a good and perfect fit for you. And you for her.
So if that’s the case, then you taking bold and consistent action NOW will make two things happen.
1) Your energy and actions will make crossing paths with her happen much sooner.
2) You energy and and actions will make you better prepared to interact, play and grow with her at the level where she is also at.
Everything is a choice.
And the awesome part is you always get choose what you want to STOP doing. KEEP doing. START doing.
Two things are true.
1) You got this, bro.
2) She’s waiting for you.
Jeffrey Platts is a men's coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men create amazing relationships with women. With over 20 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Jeffrey's work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program and the Good Men Project. He brings a rich toolbox of insights and experiences to his facilitation, integrating his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer, yoga teacher and world traveler.