Jeffrey Platts


“The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is the same problem you had last year.” — John Foster Dulles

What I Do

I work with high-performing men all over the world who are ready to experience more Power, Passion and Purpose not just in dating & relationships, but in every area of their life. 

Who I Help

The men I work with are successful in one or several areas of their lives, but still feel lost and stuck when it comes to women. Or their social life. Or their business/career. Maybe you share some of the struggles that my clients come to me with:

  • You know you are a good man, but you just aren’t meeting the right women. Or any women.
  • You confident at the boardroom or the basketball court, but feel invisible to women everywhere else.
  • You are in a relationship that lost its spark months (or years) ago.
  • You are tired of being single while seeing your friends meet beautiful women, create amazing relationships and getting married.
  • You’ve got other areas of your life “figured out,” but women feel like the last big mystery in your life.
  • You’ve studied some dating or PUA tips, maybe read some David Deida, yet you still struggle with women.
  • You have no problem getting dates with women, but the vibe fizzles out after a few dates. And you have no idea why.
  • You have been “playing the field” for years, but you’re ready to settle down with one great woman.
  • You find yourself in the “friend zone” way too much. Or all the time.
  • You’ve had way too many nights alone in front of your computer screen, staring at pixelated women.
  • You’re tired of women telling you “you’re such a great guy!” yet none of those sexy women want to date you.
  • You are worried that you’re too old to create the life and relationship you really want. Or too young.
  • You feel that time is ticking away and are asking yourself: “Is this really my life? I’m ‘successful’, but why am I not fully enjoying my life?”
  • You worry that the time and stress of your job/business will keep you from ever finding a great woman.
  • You’ve been doing the “long ranger” path of personal growth but have started to feel stuck. And isolated.
  • You know deep down that there is more to being a good man than the limiting stereotypes our culture feeds us.
  • You are ready to do the work to create the life you want. In all areas—relationships, business, money, fitness and sex.

What Is Coaching Like?

My coaching is not cookie-cutter. It’s personalized to each powerful man that is in front of me. Yet the depth of transformation and commitment to results is the same. My role is not to spoon-feed you cliché answers, but to help you get back to your power, the power that the world and women are desperately waiting for you to step into.

Coaching with me will be raw, honest and practical. I’m not here to be liked or your friend. I’m not here to make you feel comfortable or reaffirm any disempowering beliefs you have about yourself, women or life. But I will show you the “water you’re swimming in” and compassionately tell you things that other people can’t (and won’t) say to you. And we will get you consistently practicing what works and creates results.

Coaching with me will create space for you to fully celebrate and be yourself. You will feel what it’s like to be scared or uncertain and still powerfully move forward. You will experience the joy and relief that comes from shedding the ideas, habits and beliefs that no longer serve you. You will feel what it’s like for women to be drawn to and excited by the unapologetically powerful you.

Coaching will be about YOU doing the deep work and creating RESULTS. There is no way around it. You have to be 100% ready and willing to do the work. Like a personal trainer, I can’t (and won’t) do your push-ups for you. The journey of transformation is not for wimps. If you just want cozy insights and tips, this isn’t for you. If you want transformation and results, then get ready for an amazing ride.

Are Ready To Change Your Life?

Hiring a coach is a personal and powerful choice. I’ve helped hundreds of men with my coaching, weekend intensives and workshops. Because of the deep level of transformational work, at any given time, I make room for a select handful of ongoing one-to-one clients to ensure that each man gets my very best coaching and attention.

Your current mindsets, beliefs and habits have created the results you have now. For anything in your life to look different, you need transformation, not information.

My hunch is that if you’re reading this right now, something is calling you to show up more powerfully with women and in the world. I invite and challenge you to trust that intuition.

Let’s find out if or how I can help you. Schedule your Coaching Interview call and complete the three question coaching application. We’ll phone or Skype/FaceTime. (I work virtually with clients from all over the world.)

Your life is only as important as you make it.

But you have to take the first step.


“What separates those who achieve greatness in the world from those who do not, is in direct proportion to one’s ability to ask others for help.” — Donald Keough