Jeffrey Platts


Frequently Asked Questions

Where are you located?

I live in San Diego, California with my amazing wife Vanessa. Aside from private in-person intensives, all of my coaching is done virtually via phone or Skype/Zoom.

Do you work with clients outside of the US and Canada?

Absolutely. I work with clients who live all over the world. I’ve worked with guys in England, South Africa, Canada, Brazil and more. All you need is an Internet connection.

How long have you been in business?

I started my official coaching business in 2010. I actually started out coaching both men and women. Then a few years in I shifted to working solely with men because I felt deeply called to serve other men who can benefit from the lessons and tools I’ve received from my personal journey as a man. 

How many men have you worked with?

Through my private coaching, public workshops, singles events, and intensive weekend retreats, I’ve worked with over 500 men over the past nine years. 

Do you ever work with women?

My passion and purpose is currently focused on supporting men. If you’re a woman looking for a dating/relationship coach, message me and I’ll refer you to some amazing coaches.

What is the age range of the clients you work with?

The majority of my clients fall in the age range of 30 to 45 years old. That said, I’ve worked with 19 year old college guys as well as recently divorced men in their 50s. Honestly, though, age is nothing but a number and the biggest common denominator amongst all my clients is a hunger and drive to invest in themselves and do the work to finally get this part of their life mastered.

How often do I meet with you? Are the coaching sessions in person?

The frequency of your coaching session will depend on the particular program you choose. Coaching sessions are doing via phone or Skype/Zoom video. This format allows me to work with and serve men from all across the globe and is also the most effective in terms of guaranteeing the easiest access to quite, private, distraction-free spaces for our coaching sessions. 

How long do you typically work with clients for?

The length of time I work with each client depends on the specific challenges he’s coming to me for and how willing he is to do the work. In my nine years of coaching, I’ve found that the ideal program length is three months. The reality is that while insights might happen in an instant, true and lasting transformation takes time. And work. As with anything that is worthwhile in life, there is no magic pill or quick fix. If you’re just looking for information, Google is the best (and cheapest) resource.

What if I’m busy or have to travel a lot?

Many of my clients have a lot going on in their personal and professional lives. Scheduling is done via an online scheduler that automatically converts time zones and occasional reschedules are allowed when done with at least 24 hours. Also, any required books, videos or audios are shared digitally, so you can access them from anywhere. (Again, the biggest factor for all of my clients is their full-on commitment to making this a #1 priority do to the work and get results.)