Jeffrey Platts

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6 Ways to Create Juicier Connections With Women (And Anyone)

Written by on November 14, 2011

I used to be a horrible listener. I was so afraid of what a woman thought of me that I was always in my head trying to micromanage the entire conversation. I would stutter. I asked dumb things like “What

Why Happy Is Sexy

Written by on April 12, 2011

One of the main reasons people want to get physically fit or buy new clothes is to feel and look sexier. But it’s not guaranteed. Perhaps you’ve had this experience.  You wear an outfit that you feel really good in,

Maybe They ARE That Into You

Written by on March 11, 2011

There are too many times to even bother counting. “She was only talking to me because she was bored while she waited for her friends.” “The only reason she hooked up with me is because I’m American, and I stand

Why Regardless Is A Powerful Word

Written by on November 15, 2010

When left unobserved, my mind can play tricks on me.  The biggest trick it plays is the one where it makes me believe the lame excuses of why my future is limited or why my current reality won’t ever change.  One

Why do Guys Always Think The Grass Is Greener With Other Women?

Written by on April 28, 2010

“You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone.” Cliche but very true. I’m sure every person has had that experience of ending a relationship or being dumped, only to wonder afterwards why we weren’t appreciative of the person when

Why A Man Needs To Open His Heart AND His Mouth

Written by on March 30, 2010

Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman.  Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose.  But also factor into the mix that you need to

Does Your Jealousy Keep You Single?

Written by on March 25, 2010

“He doesn’t deserve to be dating a hot woman like that. She’s way out of his league.” “Ugh, just look at them, laughing and holding hands.  Get a room, you two!” Jealous:  adj. painfully desirous of another’s advantages Ever experienced

You Already Know How To Be A Great Lover

Written by on March 18, 2010

47 ways to please your man with your elbow! 12 tips to give her earth-shaking orgasms with your baseball card collection! There are countless books and Cosmo articles on how to learn the most cutting-edge techniques to please your partner

Guys, get out of your heads!

Written by on January 15, 2010

Have you ever had a woman say “You’re not even listening to me!!!” If you say no, then you’re probably lying.  Unless the Dalai Lama is reading this blog.  I know I’ve had (and still have) my fair share of moments with women where I