Jeffrey Platts

The Goal of Being In A Relationship Is Not Enough

Written by on March 20, 2017

Getting a girlfriend or wife is one thing. But to be in a relationship with a woman who is WELL-MATCHED, is a whole other level.  What does that even mean? Well, it first requires you to know (and continually discover)

There Is No “One” Archetype of Manliness

Written by on March 20, 2017

For every stereotypical “archetype” of guy that you think you “need” to be in order to attract a woman, I’ll show you a complete opposite archetype that also attracted an amazing woman. I see it time and time again in

Bro: Be The Woman You Want To Meet

Written by on March 20, 2017

Wait, what? Hear me out. Your next long-term girlfriend (or wife or life partner) is already out there. RIGHT NOW. And if you are anything like me, you prefer a woman who values: Personal growth. Self-awareness. Self-expression. Empowered communication. Now,

Stop Being A Silent Man

Written by on January 6, 2016

If you are a good man, the world is desperately for you to get louder. This isn’t about introversion/extroversion. Or if you’re “alpha” or not. It IS about the palpable energy and relief that comes from a man who is

I Had Confidence All Wrong

Written by on September 10, 2015

The other day I looked up the etymology of the word “confident.” From the Latin origin, it means “with” (com) + “trust” (fidere). So when someone is confident, that means that they are fully trusting themselves. For years, I envisioned

Stop Complaining About Being Single

Written by on August 26, 2015

STOP complaining about being single. Seriously.  The next potential partner you will meet is going to LOVE the fact that you are single. And AVAILABLE. The same goes for you meeting them and they happen to be single. Being single

There is No Such Thing as a Real Man

Written by on August 11, 2015

Every week I see another list or article titled something like “How To Know If You’re Dating A Real Man.” Or I hear a woman on a talk show complaining that she just wants to date a “real man.” Well,

Talking About A Problem Doesn’t Solve It

Written by on August 10, 2015

“If you can talk brilliantly enough about a problem, it can create the consoling illusion that it has been mastered.” — Stanley Kubrick This is a powerful quote. I know I can get so wrapped up in the art of

Your Next Partner Is Already On Earth—Smiling, Laughing, Farting

Written by on July 27, 2015

Here’s the deal. I meet so many people who are in such a state of despair about meeting their next boyfriend or girlfriend.  “I’m never gonna meet anyone again.” “There are no good men/women out there.” And from that desperation,

Confession: I Like To Watch Sports

Written by on October 29, 2014

There seems so be some ideas floating around that watching or talking about sports is incompatible with (or even beneath) being spiritual or conscious or abundant or authentic. I am into meditation. I coach people to transform their lives. I