One of the main reasons people want to get physically fit or buy new clothes is to feel and look sexier.
But it’s not guaranteed.
Perhaps you’ve had this experience. You wear an outfit that you feel really good in, where you feel you could walk in to any room and approach any person you find attractive. Then a month later, you’re wearing the same exact outfit, but your mojo is gone. You feel blah, perhaps even ugly. Or maybe you’ve had the opposite experience where you’re wearing a boring outfit and your hair is nasty greasy, but you’re still feeling good about yourself and life in general. And despite your frumpfest, somehow you’ve got people coming up to you more than ever.
Now what caused the switch? Chances are you probably look and weigh the same as you did last time you wore that outfit, but what’s shifted is your mood.
Sexiness is A VIBE YOU TUNE INTO, not something that you can get from someone or something outside of you. Yes, it’s good to take showers and wear nice clothes, but more important is to make sure you’re attending to your own mood, because that’s what people pick up the most. Your mojo doesn’t need clothes.
What things can you do to amp up your sexiness from the INSIDE out?
Remember, looking sexy doesn’t always lead to feeling good.
But feeling good always leads to looking sexy.
Jeffrey Platts is a men's coach and authentic communication expert who is passionate about helping men create amazing relationships with women. With over 20 years of personal study and transformational training, he has led nearly 200 workshops and retreats on personal growth, dating, and communication. Jeffrey's work and writing has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Post, ABC News, Authentic Man Program and the Good Men Project. He brings a rich toolbox of insights and experiences to his facilitation, integrating his adventures as DJ, amateur stand-up comedian, salsa dancer, yoga teacher and world traveler.